ABOUT

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Founder/Therapist (she/her/hers)

I have always been fascinated with the human drive for connection and belonging – whether to oneself, to our bodies, to each other, to the world, or reality. As well as the pain that erupts from a lack thereof. Research and therapy became avenues for me to deepen my interest in exploring what makes us human, and in doing so, help people nurture more self-acceptance. I am always in awe of people’s resiliency and capacity to grow.

Kathleen Oyama, EdS, LPC

As a licensed professional counselor, I have experience providing therapy, assessment, and crisis services across community mental health, inpatient, and outpatient settings. My last decade in the field has strengthened my belief in the possibility for the benefits of individual healing work to ripple out into communities, helping to foster a more trauma-conscious society. My perspective on healing isn’t just theoretical. It is shaped by my own humbling experiences in therapy, which remind me how essential it is to balance heavier internal work with a persistent nurturing of hope.

As a Japanese-American and LGBTQ+ affirming practitioner, I value inclusivity and providing identity-affirming care to all. Having navigated straddling different cultural contexts and identities growing up, I have a special heart for working with multiracial individuals. I want my clients to feel safe, supported, and empowered to take healing beyond the therapy space into every area of their lives.

I genuinely love being a therapist. I formed Nagomi Counseling out of a need for autonomy which allows me to protect and support the intentionality with which I practice. My clients are a constant source of inspiration and humility and I am grateful to be a part of their healing journeys!

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The fun stuff: My husband and I moved from Chicago to Colorado in 2017 following a deep calling to be closer to nature. I spend my leisure time hiking, camping, reading, practicing yoga, hanging with our two cats, traveling, enjoying live music, and deepening my relationships. I also love exploring and expressing myself through cooking. For me, it is an inherited passion and a beloved cultural practice of nurturing myself and loved ones. Favorite ingredients to play with lately: artichokes, mushrooms, and passionfruit!

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Licensed Professional Counselor #LPC.0017466, Colorado

Ed.S. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling (2014) Loyola University Chicago (Illinois)

B.S. Psychology (2011) University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign (Illinois)

Education & Credentials

My Approach to Therapy

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My approach is warm, authentic, holistic and collaborative. I believe therapy is a science and a craft, therefore I combine evidence-based techniques with individualized touches to ensure your time with me is both healing and productive. I work hard to be a trusted witness to anyone’s vulnerable unfolding and I am deeply mindful and respectful of this extraordinary responsibility.

I use a blend of person-centered, experiential, and mindfulness-based approaches, nervous system regulation, parts work (Internal Family Systems), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I also synthesize Polyvagal Theory and Attachment Theory into my work. This is all to facilitate awareness, healing, wholeness, connection and whatever else is a part of your definition of wellness.

Clinical jargon aside — genuine curiosity is the key to deep connection and it is what energizes me to show up for my clients every day.

I also enjoy providing therapy to AAPI clients around ethnic, racial and cultural identity, acculturation, intergenerational trauma, and legacy burdens and heirlooms. I welcome people of every background and am passionate about advancing equity within therapeutic spaces and addressing how systems can influence the development of our identities and place limits on how we pursue a life of meaning and wholeness.

The therapy process is unique to each person. We will move at the pace that is right for you! Therapy requires persistent work and trust, but at the very least, I hope that each session you leave feeling witnessed, embraced, a little lighter, and a little less alone.

Never be a prisoner of your past. It was just a lesson, not a life sentence.
— Anonymous

All parts of you are welcome!

Mapping your system builds awareness and awareness shines light on where healing is needed so you can create positive shifts in your life. Click to expand how I view and work with each component.

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A Note About Balance

It is common to feel a heaviness while starting therapy. Unpacking and processing the roots of pain, old patterns, injuries, and injustices can certainly feel this way and it is a valuable step towards healing. Holding this in awareness, each week we balance this by cultivating hope and clarity around how you want to move forward.

I may also introduce meditations and exercises to support you in awaking hopes and dreams, allowing you to feel their accessibility, as well as scan and see what may be standing in the way.

Meaning: (和み) Nagomi is the Japanese philosophy of finding peace by creating balance. Related is the belief that opposing forces can coexist harmoniously, such as darkness and light, suffering and joy, loss and growth, and fear and courage.

NAGOMI

The essence of this concept is peaceful or balanced connection between all parts of a whole. In relation to holistic healing, rather than focusing on one component of our health, we acknowledge the complex whole, as there are many elements that contribute to our wellbeing.

At Nagomi Counseling, we value wholeness and therefore practice embracing all parts of who we are. Instead of trying to deny or eradicate pain, entering into a tug of war with ourselves, we tend to these wounds and may even discover how they have made our lives richer and more substantial.

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